Sunday, August 21, 2011

Temporary Home

Well...we finally found a home to move into, temporarily at least! I first heard about the Showhomes organization a year or so ago when one of my friends from work told me about her husbands new business venture. He owns the Showhomes franchise in Raleigh, NC and I remember hearing about it and thinking it sounded like an interesting idea. Basically, the organization takes vacant homes that are on the market and stages them with real people and their furniture. We have to keep the house clean and show it whenever someone wants to look at it and in return, we get to rent the house for about 1/2 of what it would normally cost. As I mentioned in my previous post, it's also only a 90 day commitment and then turns to a month-by-month lease so that works nicely for us.

We went through the process of applying to be in the program through sending pictures of all of our furniture in May. Once we were accepted, Ryan looked at several different properties that they had available and didn't really like any of them. We finally decided we would take one but called and it had already been filled with another couple. I got a call from them the week we were moving out of our Nashville house that they had 2 homes that had just come available in Germantown. I immediately sent Ryan to look at them and told him that even if he didn't like either one, he had to pick one because we had to have somewhere to live in Memphis.

He went to look at the 2 properties and as expected, didn't like either. (Have I mentioned that he has very high expectations when it comes to houses?!?). He picked one but told me not to get excited. I wasn't sure what to expect, so was pleasantly surprised when I got to see the house in person. It isn't a house that we would buy, but it will work just fine for the interim while we continue looking for our permenant house.

The movers were supposed to arrive on Monday, August 1st with our things. I got a call from them on Sunday night saying they were on the road to Memphis and would be there Monday morning at 8:30am. I got another call on Monday morning around 7am telling me that the truck had broken down somewhere outside of Jackson, TN and that they were having to be towed all the way back to Nashville to have it fixed so our things would not be in Memphis until Tuesday at the earliest. I was bummed but I couldn't change the circumstances so we spent Monday cleaning up around the new house. We had the buddy taking a nap on the living room floor when the front door randomly opened. Turns out someone was coming to show the house and they opened the front door to a vacant house and saw a baby on the floor! You can imagine how shocked they were! I quickly told them he was NOT for sale with the house :).



The moving crew arrived on Tuesday morning and it was the same bunch who had packed our home in Nashville so it was nice to see some familiar faces. They also brought Tam with them...she is engaged to the leader of the crew, Adrian. Tam was a great help throughout the day...mostly as a babysitter!





It took until around 7pm, but they finally got the truck completely unloaded. They did a great job and we only had 1 piece of furniture that was damaged. It was Ryan's side-table and the leg broke off.


Here is the crew - Adrian, Tam, Junior, and Marcus (aka Hercules)





Then began the overwhelming task of unpacking all of the boxes. Here is a shot of the kitchen filled with boxes...ahhh!!!


Fortunately, I had been smart when they packed our home in Nashville and labeled some boxes as "Showhomes". These were the things from the kitchen that I knew I would need in a temporary house. I kept everything else boxed up to save some time/effort when we need to move again.


Madison Claire and Mac were exhausted just watching us unpack!


Mom and Dad were there to help oversee the movers and help me get the house unpacked. Ryan was in the midst of 2-a-days at football, so he wasn't much help at all. Dad had to leave after 2 days for some work meetings, so it was just me and mom and the kids because Annie was on vacation. I still don't really know how we did it, but somehow in 2 days we unpacked all of the boxes and got most everything situated. Mom and I worked so hard those days - literally working from about 8am until 10pm. My forearm was so sore from opening boxes and mom was exhausted. She said the next time we move, she is going to come keep the babies but she is not going to unpack! She was such a great help to me and I truly could not have done it without her help.



On Friday morning, Heidi from Showhomes came to stage the house with our things. It took most of the day for them to get things hung on the walls and all of the accessories throughout the house situated but by the end of the day it looked great. Here are a few pics of the finished house...I somehow didn't get one of the Master bedroom, the kitchen, Annie's room, the guest room, or the baby's room, but this will give you a general idea:






















I wish I could say it's been all smooth sailing from there....but unfortunately, that hasn't been the case. I'll update with more details soon, but in the meantime I'll leave you with one word....RATS!

DADDY!!!

After being away from Ryan for 3 weeks, we were all dying to see him! We drove up to Memphis on a Saturday and met Ryan at Jim & Nicks...I don't know who was happier - Madison Claire ormommy!!!




After lunch, we drove out to "the Barn" which had been Ryan's home for the 3 weeks he was awya from us. A family at ECS has this barn house on thier property and they let us rent it for $100/week. It was actually nice inside (running water, a TV, a kitchen, etc.) but Ryan killed a lot of bugs! One night as I was talking to him, he informed me that there was something very large crawling across the room and another night he told me if he didn't make it through the night to look for spider bites! Too funny!! We are very grateful that God provided this place for him to stay.



That weekend, we stayed with Bobby & Kat Jordan in thier guest house. Bobby & Kat are also new to ECS this year, and Bobby coaches the offensive line. They live in Cordova and were so gracious to open thier guest house to us. We had a blast playing in their pool and just being together.

Oh goodness....



Madison Claire is OBSESSED with breastfeeding. She always wants to pump when she sees me pumping and has even tried to feed the baby by putting him up to her breast. HILARIOUS! I walked into the room after I had pumped the other day and found this...oh, goodness!

2 weeks in transit...

When we moved out of our house, we still didn't have a place in Memphis to move to so we spent 2 weeks in transit with the McSwains. I am so thankful to have such great in-laws and that they opened up their home to all of us for 2 weeks! It was so nice to have some home cooked meals after eating out every meal for what felt like 2 months and to have some help with the kids! Madison Claire had a blast with her nana & papa...complete with sleeping with them most nights...a little kids dream!

I took a trip down memory lane while I was out that way and drove by our first house at 2129 Maricourt Street. It looked good and it felt strange to me that one day I would drive by 473 Summit Oaks the same way.

Here are some other pictures from our stay with the McSwains:



Nana getting some time with baby Mac


Snuggles on the couch


I mean...the CUTEST!


I went to bed one night and found MC asleep on the floor in front of the door. I tried to take a picture and it woke her up..here she is kind of out of it.


More snuggles


Snuggle time with Annie


Papa taught her how to measure things...here she is measuring papa!


Bath time!



Thank you, Cheryl & Gary!!

Backpack, Backpack...

Madison Claire LOVES Dora the Explorer (who she calls Da-du) and one of the characters is the backpack. Well...MC got her very own backpack for preschool this fall thanks to Jennie Brewer & her sewing/embroidery business Stitchy Britches. You can become a fan of her page on Facebook and see all of her things & prices - just search for Stitchy Britches.

How cute is this backpack:





*Note - since I ordered the backpack, I've found out that her preschool doesn't allow backpacks! How crazy is that?!? You have to have a "tote bag" which they conveniently sell for $11 on site. BOOOOOO!

Saturday, August 20, 2011

Sorry, bloggers!

If there is anyone out there who still checks this blog, I apologize for the long lapse in posting. We haven't had internet access on our Mac since we moved out of our house in mid-July and all of my pictures are on that computer. I finally decided tonight to transfer pictures over to my work computer so I could make some updates...so here is the first bunch and stay tuned because I'll udpate the rest (and hopefully get caught up!) tomorrow!

Packed & Out...

We got back from the beach on Sunday and the packers were supposed to arrive on Monday morning. The plan was for them to pack the house on Monday and Tuesday and then have the movers come on Wednesday. Madison Claire stayed out at the McSwains for the entire week so we could get the house packed up without her running around.

Monday morning I woke up somewhat anxious about how the day was going to go. I've never been professionally packed before, so I didn't know what to expect. I also hadn't heard from anyone with a confirmation on what time they were going to arrive so just assumed that they would be there between 8 & 9am. I started getting nervous once 9:30am rolled around and there was no one there so I called our contact at Armstrong Relocation and left a message. She called me back a few minutes later and informed me that Ryan had never called to confirm the dates and there were no packers or movers scheduled to be at my house that week.

(PAUSE: I haven't mentioned that Ryan was already in Memphis by this point full time, so I was left at home to manage this process by myself with the kids. We were set to close on the house on Thursday morning and the new homeowners were already mad because they wanted to close earlier so I knew we couldn't push it out.)

When she told me this, I nearly lost it on the phone. I started crying, explaining the situation, and telling her there was no way I could pack and move my entire house in 3 days with a newborn & no husband. She promised me they would do the best they could and said she would call me back. As soon as we hung up the phone, I immediately called my mom and told her to be on standby because she might be coming to Nashville to help me pack. Annie started calling her friends and we began to assemble a Plan B packing solution. Luckily, it wasn't needed because the relocation company called back and said the packers would come on Tuesday morning and they would still be able to get us out by Thursday. PRAISE THE LORD!

So...Tuesday morning rolls around and I'm waiting on the packers. The best thing I see is that United VanLines truck pulling up outside of my house! I'm anxiously awaiting the packers to walk up and I see 3 large men approach the home. They ring the doorbell and I tell them that the packers are supposed to be here today, not the movers! They got a good laugh out of that because they WERE the packers! I was expecting old ladies...not big strong men! Who knew??

They worked all day at the house - from about 9am - 7pm but got the whole thing packed. It was really quite frustrating to be there because you felt so helpless just sitting there on the couch while they worked away around you. That said, mark my words...I will never pack a house again myself! It was FABULOUS and definitely the way to go. When all was said and done, there were over 300 boxes. Here is a shot of a few rooms:






The next day, Wednesday, a different crew came to load up the truck. They filled this huge truck from top to bottom with our things. Not a single piece of thread would have fit on that truck when they were finished. It was unbelievable! The movers were great...aside from all of them having a crush on Annie and that causing some awkward moments.


The McSwains brought Madison Claire by the house in the late afternoon because Ryan and I had talked about it and we wanted her to have some closure with the house. She walked through it and kept saying, "it's empty" but seemed to think it was kind of fun. We said bye-bye to her room, to her window-sill in the kitchen that she loved to sit on, and she gave the house a kiss. I think it was good for her and I know it was good for me.

Once the movers pulled out, Annie and I cleaned the house up until Annie had to leave. I stayed and finished the cleaning and loading up the last items myself in the empty house. It was hard. I held it together until I saw all of Madison Claire's fingerprints on the window and doors in our kitchen going out onto the deck. I couldn't bring myself to clean them off.


I took a few pictures of the empty house...I didn't get the fingerprints and now I wish I had.















When I left the house, I drove to the McSwains which was set to be our temporary home until we found a place in Memphis. I talked with Ryan on the way there and told him "never again will I do this by myself. I am giving you a VERY STRONG hint that you need to do something VERY NICE for me!!" I know he would have been there to help if he could have...and I'm still waiting on my something nice :) :)


I have told myself over and over again that a house does not a home or family make. A house is just a house. Just as a church does not contain God, a house does not contain my family...it just serves as a gathering place for memories to be made. I am so thankful not just for this house, but for what this house represents to me - all of the fun Ryan and I had in building it together; the laughter from moments shared with one another; the occasions we celebrated with friends - from birthdays, to small group, to movies, to football games, and more; the strengthening of our marriage in this phase of life; our love for each other and our love for our kids who won't ever remember this house, but yet was their first home. These are the things I will take with me in my heart...and these are the things that I will always remember.



Sweet Smiles...

I am in L.o.v.e with this little guy. I mean he is seriously the cutest thing...these pictures do not even do him justice!



When we got back from the beach, he cracked his first smiles...check them out:
















Beach trip

Before we knew that we were going to be moving to Memphis, back when we all still thought we would be at CPA this year, I had planned to go to Destin for 2 weeks with the kids and Annie during my maternity leave. The plan was to spend one week in Destin at One Water Place and one week in Panama City at the McSwains condo. My parents and Ryan's parents both had their calendars booked for us.

As you can imagine, with the move to Memphis thrown into our summer, that 2 week vacation had to go :(. We were able to get down there for about 5 days...which was better than nothing! We missed Ryan but had a great time! Sarah & Jacob joined all of us at One Water Place for a few days and it was such fun to spend the time with them. Madison Claire was also at such a fun stage to be at the beach. She could stay out for a few hours at a time and was just fun to be around!

Here are a few pics from the trip:







Snuggling with the buddy





Jacob & Mac getting some good quality time






Notice that Madison Claire bear is naked...she decided to take her bathing suit off randomly. I was just happy she didn't yell out "I PEE PEED!"


Love this pic...like she is getting ready to do a round-off backhandspring!




MC loves some ice cream!


Celebrating our 2 year anniversary with Annie on July 13th...we are so thankful for her!



Bath time!


At the pool with Mimi


We put the buddy in the water for a few minutes - he didn't really have a reaction one way or the other


On the dock with Papa at Dewey Destins